The Ghost of Blushes Past: an origin story of sorts
At one reader’s request, Katzenbaer looks back at the archaeology of her kinks. What makes a girl crave humiliation, and what does The Little Mermaid have to do with it?
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Saving Your Blushes: how can you keep humiliation fresh?
Humiliation is such an intense feeling – no wonder so many of us find it so hot. But what do you do for kicks when things just don’t embarrass you anymore?
Dirty words #2: You Say Paci, I Say Dummy
Katzenbaer ponders baby-talk for humiliation, UK v US words, and the power of the language we’ve grown up with.
Dress for regress: clothing humiliation and me
When is clothing hotter than nudity? Clothing kinks laid bare, from reluctant little princess to forced servitude to slut-in-training.
Dirty words #1: grammar and tone
In which Katzenbaer talks about her grammar kink, and how not to get a Fetlife reply.
What is Happening To Her?
I have always had a fetish for humiliation. Specifically, an appealing man taking great delight in reducing me to an embarrassed little knot. The title of this blog is a shortened version of one of my favourite sentences in kinky fiction: “This could NOT be happening to her.” One of my favourite tools of humiliation … Read more