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Happening To Her – tales of the humiliated

Me, My Kink & I

Kink for Contrast

26/11/202225/11/2022 by katzenbaer
A pair of feet with mismatched socks.

Katzenbaer talks about her kink for contrast, how it ramps up humiliation and why unwilling characters make everything hotter.

Categories Me, My Kink & I, Thoughts & Daydreams Tags adhd, ageplay, belittling, dress-up, kink relationships, punishment Leave a comment

Drag and Kink: A Tomboy Speaks

02/06/202216/02/2022 by katzenbaer

Katzenbaer reflects on the power of both kink and drag as tools of transformation.

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags confidence, drag, kink relationships, self-care, tomboy Leave a comment

The Ghost of Blushes Past: an origin story of sorts

15/12/2021 by katzenbaer
Blue notepaper with a redheaded mermaid on it

At one reader’s request, Katzenbaer looks back at the archaeology of her kinks. What makes a girl crave humiliation, and what does The Little Mermaid have to do with it?

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags ABDL, ageplay, belittling, diapers, forced marriage, nappies, origins, personal, public humiliation, sissy Leave a comment

Saving Your Blushes: how can you keep humiliation fresh?

19/11/2021 by katzenbaer
Buzz Lightyear the astronaut toy is dressed in a pink apron as Mrs Nesbitt in Toy Story. Woody the Cowboy looks on with concern.

Humiliation is such an intense feeling – no wonder so many of us find it so hot. But what do you do for kicks when things just don’t embarrass you anymore?

Categories Me, My Kink & I, Thoughts & Daydreams Tags humiliation, kink relationships, personal, public humiliation Leave a comment

Dirty words #2: You Say Paci, I Say Dummy

12/11/202112/11/2021 by katzenbaer
ClipArt picture of a dummy, with the UK name and the US name, pacifier

Katzenbaer ponders baby-talk for humiliation, UK v US words, and the power of the language we’ve grown up with.

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags ABDL, ageplay, belittling, personal Leave a comment

Seven Savageisms I hold dear

03/11/2021 by katzenbaer

Advice columnist Dan Savage has been a force of great good in my life, and that of many other perverts. In case you’re not familiar with his work, check out his column Savage Love and the podcast Savage Lovecast for funny, acerbic, compassionate, self-deprecating, kink-friendly advice. I wanted to share a few Savage pearls of … Read more

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags kink idols, kinky ethics, the sub life Leave a comment

Dress for regress: clothing humiliation and me

29/10/2021 by katzenbaer

When is clothing hotter than nudity? Clothing kinks laid bare, from reluctant little princess to forced servitude to slut-in-training.

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags ABDL, ageplay, belittling, DDLG, dress-up, personal, regression Leave a comment

Dirty words #1: grammar and tone

13/10/202113/10/2021 by katzenbaer

In which Katzenbaer talks about her grammar kink, and how not to get a Fetlife reply.

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags Fetlife, Good practice, personal, writing Leave a comment

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ABDL (26) ageplay (32) babygirl (3) beatrice (5) belittling (37) bondage (13) boss baby (7) brat (28) caning (3) captivity (3) CMNF (4) corporal punishment (9) DDLG (10) degradation (3) diapers (25) dollification (4) dress-up (48) dystopian (3) forced marriage (3) gag (3) historical (7) humiliation (9) julia (4) kink relationships (5) kinky ethics (5) Lady Elizabeth (3) lottie (4) Mindy (5) nappies (25) nonconsent (14) personal (6) prisoner (4) public humiliation (45) punishment (47) ravishment (13) revenge (6) self-care (3) sexual humiliation (6) sissification (8) spanking (36) status drop (6) strapping (5) the sub life (3) tomboy (8) wetting (13)

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