Kink for Contrast
Katzenbaer talks about her kink for contrast, how it ramps up humiliation and why unwilling characters make everything hotter.
Me, My Kink & I
Drag and Kink: A Tomboy Speaks
Katzenbaer reflects on the power of both kink and drag as tools of transformation.
The Ghost of Blushes Past: an origin story of sorts
At one reader’s request, Katzenbaer looks back at the archaeology of her kinks. What makes a girl crave humiliation, and what does The Little Mermaid have to do with it?
Saving Your Blushes: how can you keep humiliation fresh?
Humiliation is such an intense feeling – no wonder so many of us find it so hot. But what do you do for kicks when things just don’t embarrass you anymore?
Dirty words #2: You Say Paci, I Say Dummy
Katzenbaer ponders baby-talk for humiliation, UK v US words, and the power of the language we’ve grown up with.
Seven Savageisms I hold dear
Advice columnist Dan Savage has been a force of great good in my life, and that of many other perverts. In case you’re not familiar with his work, check out his column Savage Love and the podcast Savage Lovecast for funny, acerbic, compassionate, self-deprecating, kink-friendly advice. I wanted to share a few Savage pearls of … Read more
Dress for regress: clothing humiliation and me
When is clothing hotter than nudity? Clothing kinks laid bare, from reluctant little princess to forced servitude to slut-in-training.
Dirty words #1: grammar and tone
In which Katzenbaer talks about her grammar kink, and how not to get a Fetlife reply.