Don’t Be A Dick
Katzenbaer proposes doing away with dick avatars. She does concede that Dick Avatar would be an amazing drag king name.
kinky ethics
Humiliation play: setting emotional filters
Humiliation play takes you close to the edge. Katzenbaer considers ways to avoid tumbling over and ruining a good thing.
“If This Were Real, It Would Be Horrifying”
The challenge of protecting edge-play headspace from stories of real-world abuse. Themes may be upsetting – please read with care.
Seven Savageisms I hold dear
Advice columnist Dan Savage has been a force of great good in my life, and that of many other perverts. In case you’re not familiar with his work, check out his column Savage Love and the podcast Savage Lovecast for funny, acerbic, compassionate, self-deprecating, kink-friendly advice. I wanted to share a few Savage pearls of … Read more
Whatever age you play, be an adult about it
When it comes to treating kinky partners fairly, sometimes even Littles need to grow up. A lil rant about ghosting, pestering and owning our mistakes as subs.