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Happening To Her – tales of the humiliated

kinky ethics

Don’t Be A Dick

13/05/202213/05/2022 by katzenbaer
An icon of a cockerel with a red NO sign around it

Katzenbaer proposes doing away with dick avatars. She does concede that Dick Avatar would be an amazing drag king name.

Categories Rants Tags Fetlife, Good practice, kinky ethics Leave a comment

Humiliation play: setting emotional filters

23/03/202226/01/2022 by katzenbaer
Neon sign reading "NOPE"

Humiliation play takes you close to the edge. Katzenbaer considers ways to avoid tumbling over and ruining a good thing.

Categories Kinky Ethics Tags kink relationships, kinky ethics, self-care Leave a comment

“If This Were Real, It Would Be Horrifying”

03/12/2021 by katzenbaer
Leather tawse, or school strap, curled inside a desk.

The challenge of protecting edge-play headspace from stories of real-world abuse. Themes may be upsetting – please read with care.

Categories Kinky Ethics Tags corporal punishment, kinky ethics, nonconsent, punishment Leave a comment

Seven Savageisms I hold dear

03/11/2021 by katzenbaer

Advice columnist Dan Savage has been a force of great good in my life, and that of many other perverts. In case you’re not familiar with his work, check out his column Savage Love and the podcast Savage Lovecast for funny, acerbic, compassionate, self-deprecating, kink-friendly advice. I wanted to share a few Savage pearls of … Read more

Categories Me, My Kink & I Tags kink idols, kinky ethics, the sub life Leave a comment

Whatever age you play, be an adult about it

04/10/202102/10/2021 by katzenbaer

When it comes to treating kinky partners fairly, sometimes even Littles need to grow up. A lil rant about ghosting, pestering and owning our mistakes as subs.

Categories Rants Tags ageplay, kinky ethics, the sub life Leave a comment

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